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How to Survive Your Asian Parents’ Traditional Tiger Parenting Methods
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How to Survive Your Asian Parents’ Traditional Tiger Parenting Methods

I am a survivor of traditional tiger parenting methods. What is tiger parenting? It is a form of harsh and demanding authoritative parenting where the child is pushed to excel and shine at everything she or he does, particularly in academic results and in extracurricular activities. There is little time left for play – in […]
Seeing Red: A Way Forward For ‘Period Spot Checks’
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Seeing Red: A Way Forward For ‘Period Spot Checks’

Over a month ago, Malaysians saw red with the breaking news of “period spot checks” happening in schools. Young female Muslims shared their shame at having to prove they were on their periods while at religious classes.  The outer labia was purportedly subjected to swabbing with cotton buds, prodding with fingers, or groping to prove […]
5 Simple Steps To Make Your Beauty Routine More Sustainable
Beauty & Fashion

5 Simple Steps To Make Your Beauty Routine More Sustainable

Starting a sustainable beauty routine may sound intimidating, but it’s actually pretty simple to do. Every small step counts — you don’t have to overhaul your entire beauty stash to get on that zero-waste path. In fact, once you begin swapping out certain products, you won’t even notice the difference with time, and that’s the […]
Best Comfort Films on Netflix To Embrace During Lockdown
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Best Comfort Films on Netflix To Embrace During Lockdown

As news of rising Covid-19 cases around Southeast Asia dominate the headlines and countries go back into some version of a lockdown, it’s never been a better time to reach for some good ol’ comfort.  Sink back into your comfy couch while dressed in your softest jammies and grab a bowl of your favourite soul-filling […]
Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Buy Into The Face Roller Myth
Beauty & Fashion

Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Buy Into The Face Roller Myth

Were you, like many other people, influenced by social media to get yourself a rose quartz face roller? Don’t beat yourself up — we’ve all been there at some point. It’s hard to not be dazzled by claims of traditional massaging techniques that can lift your face, depuff, improve lymphatic drainage, and more. Plus, it […]
The Art Of Sexting For Beginners
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The Art Of Sexting For Beginners

I was having drinks with a few girlfriends last week when we got on to the topic of sexting. I was a little surprised to know that out of the five of us, only two of us sext with our partners. The other girls were curious, but at the same time bashful when it came […]
Universal Things All Asian Parents Seem To Do
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Universal Things All Asian Parents Seem To Do

No matter which Asian country we come from or our socio-economic status, many Asian parents share certain quirks and traits that are simply instantly recognisable as an “Asian Parent Thing”.  While we love our parents, some of these behaviours can sometimes get a bit out of hand. Hands up if you identify with any of […]
Rape Jokes are Not Funny: How We Can Prevent Rape Culture
Lifestyle

Rape Jokes are Not Funny: How We Can Prevent Rape Culture

If you are from Malaysia, chances are you would have heard of this already. A Tiktok video made and uploaded by a Form 5 student on 23rd April 2021 exploded all over social media, sparking debates, commentary, and content on rape jokes and sexual harassment/assault.  @ant33aterpls make the school environment safer for us, as teachers […]
Growing Pains: What It’s Like Being Biracial In Asia
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Growing Pains: What It’s Like Being Biracial In Asia

“What are you?” is the question I most often get asked when I meet someone for the first time. I can vouch for many other mixed-raced Asian kids that this is probably one of the most commonly asked questions. Being someone with a mixed ancestry can mean a lot of things, but one constant is […]
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